A Couple of Things…

1.  It’s always good to get all the facts before weighing in.


2015 New Year Photo2. Oh! By the way, New Year’s Eve was quite the night.  My game plan? It was to go out and shoot a couple of bands, stop by Maggie’s and be home by 11.  What happened in reality?  Two hours at Discovery for Tommy Marsh, then Guy Martin, Grapes and Hops for Shawn Jones, Iron Butterfly Experience at Amigos, then Mandex at Bombay’s.  I finally made it to Maggie’s just in time for midnight.  Got home by 12:30.  Missed my target by one and half hours.  Not too bad!  Plus I love the photo taken just after midnight.
Thanks to pops for being my DD.  Thanks for posting this photo Maggie!


3. I believe on my last post I mentioned that I’m a spicy mama; I love hot foods!  But I’m also a cheesy girl.  Can’t get enough cheese in my life.  It was with surprise that I found out that China doesn’t “do cheese.”  I’ve heard that the Chinese don’t have a milk-drinking culture, thus they are lactose intolerant, but a lot of people around the world think the whole process is flat out gross.  I have to admit, it kind of is.  But then I eat chorizo, and nobody really wants to know what’s in that.


4. Could someone PLEASE for all the love in the world, explain to Sydney Rose the difference between leaving a voice mail message saying it’s “URGENT” and a voice mail message saying it’s “important.”

She drives me crazy!


Selma5. I saw the movie Selma this weekend.  I don’t think I’ve been that emotionally impacted by a film in quite some time.  I’m hearing how certain businesses have pooled resources together in key cities to sponsor showings for all 7th, 8th and 9th graders.  The movie is a solid reminder that we have in fact come a long way.  You think cops nowadays are bad?  These guys were right down chicken shit motherfuckers.  People forget the segregation and the degradation, and bullshit rules imposed. Just shameful.

Yes let’s keep moving forward.  We shall not stand for human rights violations. PERIOD.


Read6. Cute story reported by LA Weekly recently where they show an LA Traffic sign was apparently hacked.  How funny would that be if it wasn’t hacked?  The sign reflects a Twitter hashtag, #ReadAFuckingBook, that’s been circulating since 2010. It’s often used to punctuate a perceived act of ignorance. Nice message don’t you think!


7. I’ve been creating websites since the 90’s when I was taught by a friend.  I never took an official class; he mentored me in website designs. I generate some extra income working at night and on the weekends as much as needed, but the World Wide Web Consortium has changed the rules over the years and so I’ve been teaching myself some of the newer technology via online tutorials.  I find the more tutorials I do for “beginners” the faster I get through them and the more the tech “sticks” with me.


Danny Carey of TOOL8. The Doug Webb Group featuring Danny Carey of the band Tool, have played here in Ventura three times in the last seven months.  Each musician is top notch and to see Carey playing jazz is just too cool for school.  A friend of mine was going to put a tip in the tip jar until someone showed him on their i-phone that Carey is worth $40 million.


9.  Note to self:  When recovering from a bad head cold and/or cough, avoid tearjerker movies.


10.  Yeah, I had to deal with a bad cough the past week and so I couldn’t go to physical therapy for my knee.  After one week of no exercise, tons of bed rest and not really thinking about it…my right knee feels fantastic! 🙂


11. I’m planning a trip to Europe this Fall.  Any tips on traveling on a frugal budget?


12. From my favorite quotes file, “The media’s the most powerful entity on earth. They have the power to make the innocent guilty and to make the guilty innocent, and that’s power. Because they control the minds of the masses.”  – Malcom X

Thanks for your time!  And always question the media. 😉

A Couple of Things…

Highlight: Scuba Diving

Highlight: Scuba Diving

1. I finally got back on the basketball court again after being ill and thought I’d ease back into it.  But between Rage Against the Machine, NIN & Linkin Park on the headphones, it’s pretty hard not to go full throttle!  They’re the best medicine; felt great to be back!

2. Call me goofy, but I get super excited when someone I like, likes me back.  You know, you make a connection.  And I’m not talking about men, I’m talking about people in general, including kids.  Connecting with good people is about my most favorite thing in the whole wide world…right behind being able to help those who are worthy of help.

3.  And just so you know, I know many people who don’t like me.  You can’t please everyone.  And seriously, I do my best to not let it affect me.  But there are a few that I’m determined to win over!

4.  And please don’t accuse me of seeking praise because I do love it when someone likes me and I made a special connection.  You would be mistaking praise for camaraderie!  Sociability is like an elixir for me! It cures all ails!  I really do love social-personality people!!!

5. It’s my birth week and I’ve decided to start dancing again!  It’s been way too long since I’ve gone out to dance.  It may not be pretty, but I’m having a blast!!

6. Kat Merrick and I had a short discussion last night about the exchanging or the no exchanging policy of birthday gifts between friends.  I like that a lot, because if the truth be known, I never remember what I got for my birthday, but I always remember where I was and who I spent it with.   A good time is the best gift!

7. I don’t worry about dying.  I worry a tad bit about how it will end, but not that this lifetime will end.

8. I’ve had more than one’s lifetime worth of experiences – here are just a few highlights (PG 13 Version):

  • Body surfing and building sand castles on hot summer days
  • Nailing water skiing on one ski, FINALLY
  • Going to my first rock concert: The Rolling Stones 1971
  • Having my high school crush call me out of the blue!
  • FINALLY graduating high school, and with honors
  • Continuing, by choice my education
  • Nailing algebra in college
  • Surviving my teens
  • Turning 21, FINALLY
  • Flying down the ski slope, completely out of control
  • Broadcasting trip to England
  • College trip to New York City
  • New Year’s Eve in Time Square
  • Seeing David Bowie in the Elephant Man on Broadway
  • Seeing Tim Curry & Ian McKellan in Amadeus on Broadway
  • Getting that very first full-time radio job offer
  • Falling in love
  • Being proposed to…a few times
  • Accepting a proposal
  • Getting married
  • Honeymoon in Kuaui
  • Buying a home
  • Finding out I was pregnant
  • Holding Sydney for the first time
  • Earning my program director stripes in radio
  • Live radio broadcast at Sea World, Disneyland and Catalina
  • Learning to scuba dive
  • Driving a speed boat full throttle, catching air, along Pierpont Beach
  • Behind the controls flying a twin engine airplane over Lake Casitas
  • Being flown in a aerobatic plane doing stunts over Camarillo
  • Mardi Gras in New Orleans
  • SXSW and meeting Trent Reznor
  • Receiving a Platinum Record from 311
  • Meeting Gavin Rossdale
  • Taking Sydney when she was a tot to Disneyland
  • Taking Syd & carload of pre-teen friends to Magic Mountain…riding rollercoasters
  • Launching a national music & entertainment magazine as editor-in-chief
  • Dinner party with Danny, Richard & Jenna Elfman
  • Shooting Pearl Jam, Collective Soul, Bush, Everclear, Better than Ezra, Sugar Ray, INXS, Third Eye Blind…
  • Getting my braces off, FINALLY
  • Vacation with Sydney Rose to New York City; getting lost in Central Park
  • Cougars winning basketball CIF championships 2011
  • Hitting my very first three-pointer!
  • Sydney Rose coming back home
  • Being served dinner by firemen in uniform.
  • Band Practice!

9. So when I think of the few low points in my life such as losing loved ones or my divorce, all I need to do is look at all the highlights and reflect what an awesome time I’ve had!

10. I’m ready to take on yet another year of living it up!

11. From my “Favorite Facebook Posts” file:  “To me – old age is always ten years older than I am.” – John Burroughs

Thanks for listening!