A Couple of Things…

1.  It’s always good to get all the facts before weighing in.


2015 New Year Photo2. Oh! By the way, New Year’s Eve was quite the night.  My game plan? It was to go out and shoot a couple of bands, stop by Maggie’s and be home by 11.  What happened in reality?  Two hours at Discovery for Tommy Marsh, then Guy Martin, Grapes and Hops for Shawn Jones, Iron Butterfly Experience at Amigos, then Mandex at Bombay’s.  I finally made it to Maggie’s just in time for midnight.  Got home by 12:30.  Missed my target by one and half hours.  Not too bad!  Plus I love the photo taken just after midnight.
Thanks to pops for being my DD.  Thanks for posting this photo Maggie!


3. I believe on my last post I mentioned that I’m a spicy mama; I love hot foods!  But I’m also a cheesy girl.  Can’t get enough cheese in my life.  It was with surprise that I found out that China doesn’t “do cheese.”  I’ve heard that the Chinese don’t have a milk-drinking culture, thus they are lactose intolerant, but a lot of people around the world think the whole process is flat out gross.  I have to admit, it kind of is.  But then I eat chorizo, and nobody really wants to know what’s in that.


4. Could someone PLEASE for all the love in the world, explain to Sydney Rose the difference between leaving a voice mail message saying it’s “URGENT” and a voice mail message saying it’s “important.”

She drives me crazy!


Selma5. I saw the movie Selma this weekend.  I don’t think I’ve been that emotionally impacted by a film in quite some time.  I’m hearing how certain businesses have pooled resources together in key cities to sponsor showings for all 7th, 8th and 9th graders.  The movie is a solid reminder that we have in fact come a long way.  You think cops nowadays are bad?  These guys were right down chicken shit motherfuckers.  People forget the segregation and the degradation, and bullshit rules imposed. Just shameful.

Yes let’s keep moving forward.  We shall not stand for human rights violations. PERIOD.


Read6. Cute story reported by LA Weekly recently where they show an LA Traffic sign was apparently hacked.  How funny would that be if it wasn’t hacked?  The sign reflects a Twitter hashtag, #ReadAFuckingBook, that’s been circulating since 2010. It’s often used to punctuate a perceived act of ignorance. Nice message don’t you think!


7. I’ve been creating websites since the 90’s when I was taught by a friend.  I never took an official class; he mentored me in website designs. I generate some extra income working at night and on the weekends as much as needed, but the World Wide Web Consortium has changed the rules over the years and so I’ve been teaching myself some of the newer technology via online tutorials.  I find the more tutorials I do for “beginners” the faster I get through them and the more the tech “sticks” with me.


Danny Carey of TOOL8. The Doug Webb Group featuring Danny Carey of the band Tool, have played here in Ventura three times in the last seven months.  Each musician is top notch and to see Carey playing jazz is just too cool for school.  A friend of mine was going to put a tip in the tip jar until someone showed him on their i-phone that Carey is worth $40 million.


9.  Note to self:  When recovering from a bad head cold and/or cough, avoid tearjerker movies.


10.  Yeah, I had to deal with a bad cough the past week and so I couldn’t go to physical therapy for my knee.  After one week of no exercise, tons of bed rest and not really thinking about it…my right knee feels fantastic! 🙂


11. I’m planning a trip to Europe this Fall.  Any tips on traveling on a frugal budget?


12. From my favorite quotes file, “The media’s the most powerful entity on earth. They have the power to make the innocent guilty and to make the guilty innocent, and that’s power. Because they control the minds of the masses.”  – Malcom X

Thanks for your time!  And always question the media. 😉

A Couple of Things…

Dad Syd and meSyd and Robby1. Sydney’s visit was short but fun.  She got to visit with friends and spend time with family and pets left behind here in Ventura.  I hated to see her leave but so grateful for the time we spent together doing last minute shopping, baking and catching up with one another.

Her first night in town, Sydney spent it with a good friend who wined and dined her.  They looked so freakin’ cute.  They pretended like they were going to prom which she never had the chance to attend since she didn’t attend a public high school. Too cute!  Before you get too excited, he’s just a friend.  Sydney has a boyfriend waiting for her in Oregon.

As a Christmas tradition started several years ago, we took in a movie together on Christmas afternoon.  We saw Into the Woods.  I thought it was cute, but then I like musicals.

christmas_2015_005Syd Rose once again took the opportunity to attempt to bond with Molly.  You got to hand it to her for her persistence, but the cat is not only mean and anti-social, she’s so fat!  I can’t get my roommate to quit feeding her!

Sydney returned to Oregon on Friday, the day after Christmas and I have to say Friday evening rush hour traffic out of LAX wasn’t so bad! I even got home to text her before her flight took off!

Looking forward to the next time I see her beautiful face which I fear will be after she turns 21 in June this year.


2. Well as far as my knee rehab goes, I’ll be honest, it’s been a tad tough.  First there was the pain of the torn meniscus, then the short-term pain from the surgery.  I was feeling pretty good, pretty great actually, until I started physical therapy.  Now it’s a whole new type of pain!  I’m being a good girl and enduring and getting in those special exercises in between appointments, but man on man!  The whole surrounding area really hurts and gets stiff overnight!

I’ve been doing some brisk walking and bike riding, so I thought I’d go out to shoot some hoops.  Nothing major, just stand close enough to hoop to stretch out my arms.  My  REALLY old basketball needed to be pumped up after two months of neglect.  First the needle broke and then the ball went completely flat, and that was that. The next day I bought a brand new ball and took it up to my favorite court behind City Hall.  Damn I miss shooting!


basketball-mom3.  Speaking of basketball, I saw this and thought, “Yeah!  That’s me!!” Then it occurred to me it’s about moms with kids who play basketball.


4. At what point during a text do you give up and delete and just make a freakin’ phone call?


5. Speaking of which, I heard there might be an app soon for recalling a text.  Didn’t there use to be one on Microsoft Outlook for emails?  What a great idea.  I don’t think I’d use it much for having second thoughts about having written something.  I think I would use it once I noticed I made a faux pas.

My funniest faux pas in a text message?  I was texting my boss and I asked him to pick me up on our way to a breakfast meeting.  Unfortunately I texted, “Will you lick me up?”

True story.


10342889_10152577651433581_1673275093986553011_n6. I came across a brilliant Facebook page when I saw a friend “like” one of their posts; they’re called Team Growing Bolder.
I love their outlook and look forward to their future posts.  I invite you to check them out too:  https://www.facebook.com/GrowingBolder


7. I had a dream that Kim Jong-un and the president of Sony Pictures were actually in cahoots over getting tons of free publicity for the movie “The Interview.”  Jong-un was given a cut of the profits based on number of tickets sold, the US was given another enemy to hate diverting attention from the Isis and idiot police, and Franco and Rogan gained another ten minutes of fame…

Then I woke up.   But I ask you, is it that far-fetched of an idea?  All that free publicity?

I guess it is far-fetched as Sony spent so much money (allegedly) on cleaning up their security breach done by the hackers.


8. Have I ever mentioned that I’m a spicy mama?  I love hot food and hot sauces!!


9. I can’t believe how long it’s been since my last post.  I’ve been busy, but I’ve also been just taking care of the body and resting.  I’ve been cooking more and reading recipes and trying them out. I’ve watch a few movies on my Kindle Fire and looking at the possibility of making living quarter changes.  I’m certainly looking forward to taking on 2015.


10. I won’t be sharing a favorite quote this time, but rather presenting my own: “May the New Year be an opportunity for you to realize you are responsible, you are good, you can make life great.  Begin!” – Pam Baumgardner

Thanks for your time!