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A Couple of Things…Wine Tasting

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PamI’m not the biggest authority when it comes to wine tasting; in fact, I normally go by whether the wine I’ve been served makes me crinkle my nose or not, so a discernible palate, I’ve yet to develop.

It’s been 20+ years since I went wine tasting; so I was very excited and honored to be included in Kat Merrick’s recent wine tasting excursion.  Her attention to detail and party planning skills are a wonder to behold and the day would have been nothing without her.

The first day of September, right smack dab in the middle of the Labor Day weekend was incredibly hot and humid.  The outing capped off Kat’s Birth-Week which had begun the weekend before with a party at The Tavern with Raging Arb and the Redheads. Kat is one of those women, who like myself, subscribes to the “How to Live Life to the Fullest” philosophies.  Plus, she just cracks me up!

Kat rented a van and my father stepped up as the designated driver for my friends so we wouldn’t have to worry and we would be safe knowing we had a sober driver.  That being said, and with his impeccable driving record to his credit, there was that moment of collective doubt as we exited the freeway and we all saw the stopped line of cars on the offramp, but apparently that didn’t register until the last moment for my father as he slammed on the brakes JUST in time before plowing into the autos waiting to turn.  But that is neither here nor there as it woke us up – in every respect – preparing us for the wine tasting ahead.

We visited four vineyards and took our time at the tasting tables learning about the wines being poured.  The Roberts are members of some wine clubs and as a result our pours were gratis, which I had not expected, but am so appreciative of.  At each location we took our time as we were in no hurry and enjoyed not only each other’s company, but Kat had put together a spread beyond belief.  Appetizers at our first with grapes, cheeses, salami, dried apricots and crackers.  Another one had our main course with amazing turkey sandwiches on artisan bread, as well as pasta salad made with fresh tomatoes from her garden.  Understandably, we never did get around to dessert, we were stuffed!!!

Still very green on the wine tasting front, and with a lot to still learn, I will attempt to impart what knowledge I have learned about wine tasing:

1. Go with someone more experienced than yourself

2. A designated driver, no matter what price, is worth it.

3. Take your time.  Do not rush

4. Don’t finish the glass if you don’t like it.

5. Photo ops are everywhere!  (Extra note: The pictures are better at the beginning of the day instead of the end, when you’re sloppy drunk).

6. Don’t get drunk

7. Sunglasses are mandatory for more than one reason.

8. Learn the term, “Revisit”.

I will now add this to my list of life highlights!  When I get “blue”, which is so rare, all I need to do is to place my attention on any of these highlights, and “Poof!”  Blues begone!

Thanks Kat, Chris, Karen, Wendell and my father Gilbert for a fabulous time!!

A Couple of Things…

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Syd for a quick visit while I was on the air.

Syd for a quick visit while I was on the air.

Mostly I like to have my blog be uplifting and not depressing, but lately, there are a number of downers going on not including Syria or Miley Cyrus.  So I will start with something up:

1. I’m eternally grateful that it takes so much more energy to hate than to love. Love is easy. Hate is work.

2a. Another friend dealt the cancer card. That’s just fucked up. She’s still in shock and is now facing a mastectomy and reconstructive surgery.    K, you guys, this is it. Clean tissue. Health. Vitality. Mock it up. See it. Feel it. Be it. We can do this!!

2b. According to the National Cancer Institute, one in eight American women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime. Get those mammograms ladies.

2c. Of course men can develop breast cancer as well, but you don’t get the luxury of your insurance (if lucky enough to have it) to cover annual exams. So you’ll have to do due diligence and do those self exams which are so much fun!  Or better yet, have your wife or girlfriend do them for you.

3. Self proclaimed Christians who have no love and tolerance for all beliefs and lifestyles are amongst the scariest people I know. Just saying.

Gus exposing himself at the Central Park Zoo

Gus exposing himself at the Central Park Zoo, June 2009.

4. Sad to hear that Gus was euthanized this week at the Central Park Zoo.  He was 27 years old.  The average life span of a polar bear is 20.7.  He had an inoperable thyroid tumor and his health had deteriorated.  Sydney and I got a real up close view of Gus on our last visit to New York City.

5. My dog Sammy has been staring at me a lot recently. This worries me. She’s a senior citizen and may be having lapses in memory. I feel like she’s reaching out to me waiting for me to help her, but it’s probably more like she’s wondering who I am.  She use to jump up the moment my feet hit the floor in the morning and follow me from room to room, and she’d be at the gate waiting for my return.  Now she sleeps in and she’s sitting on the couch and when I get home.  But she’s there, and I love that she still demands my lap before retiring for the night.

6. I recently saw a post about how life is hard, but if you eliminate expectations and replace with a little bit of gratitude, maybe that’s enough.

That post made me sad.  Life is about creating and making the most of it.  Sure be grateful, but be satisfied because you’re living life to the fullest!  Don’t expect others to make it happen.  You need to make it happen.  Be responsible for your happiness!  Be grateful for that!

7. But I do admit that I get a little tired of the “Grateful” posts on Facebook.  After a while, I’m like, “SO FREAKIN’ WHAT!!! Who cares what you’re grateful for…unless of course it’s for the perfect lemondrop martini.

8. I’m too outspoken.  I say what is on my mind.  I use to have a filter, but the older I get, the more I blurt out what’s just sitting there.    On the upside, I won’t have regrets of things left unsaid.   Both bad, and good.

9.  From my “Little Did They Know” file:  I use to nurse Sydney while I was on the air.  🙂

10.  Have you never seen the Honey Badger video?  Do yourself a favor and check it out because, “Honey Badger don’t give a shit!”  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg

Me and Kat Merrick

Me and Kat Merrick

11. Happy Birthday to Kat Merrick.  August 29 is her birthday.  She’s one of the hardest working women I know working to improve conditions in her community.  She loves her family, treasures her friends, and knows how to have a real good time!  I admire & adore her and am pleased as punch to call her my friend!

12. From my “Favorite Facebook Posts” file:  “I decided if you can’t be a good example, then you’ll just have to be a horrible warning.”  – Catherine Aird

Thanks for listening!

A Couple of Things…

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1. The Ventura Fair is in full swing!   The theme is Boots, Barns & Banjos.  It was so much fun walking the parade route last Saturday with Kat and Totally Local VC.   The float provided live music from Dan Grimm on guitar & Ian McFadyen on banjo and Jonny Reese of Amigos on air guitar.  Photo above has Mary McGrath who represented locally grown pumpkins, Kat Merrick of Totally Local VC and myself supporting local music.   The float took first place!!!

2. The second photo is courtesy of my friend, photographer Amanda Peacock.  When I saw this when she posted it on Facebook I laughed because I had no idea she was shooting me.  Then my second thought was, “What happened to my ass?!!!” Seriously!  I use to have one!

3. My birthday, by the way (thanks for asking!), was amazing!!  Went to the Getty Museum with Sydney, band practice with Christine & Charles Law, then drinks with the Laws, Eve, Kat & Chris, then a delicious dinner with the family, Staci and the Mimiagas at Aloha.  My birth week started with dancing to Rey Fresco the weekend before with Maggie at Bombay’s and ended the following Friday with Linda (my oldest & dearest friend) for great music from Shawn Jones at Peirano’s.
Dancing, amazing music, delicious food, the best friends and family.  Life is good!!!

4. I’ll be reviewing the no gift birthday policy with Kat.  (See last blog)

5. Oh!  I learned “Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” by the Eurythmics at band practice on my birthday, the Marilyn Manson version that is.  But it sounds more like the White Stripes doing Marilyn Manson.

6. Double Oh!  Thought of another life hightlight:
Interviewing Neil Patrick Harris while he was taking flying trapeze lessons in the Valley, then at the end, he surprises me with a free try.  I can still recall the adrenalin rush with safety harness on, standing on tippy toes grasping the bar, and then taking a deep breath and swinging out.    SOOOO SCARY!!!   I was high for days!

7. Soon after I wrote that list last week of some of the highlights in my life I saw this and smiled.  This is why I wrote it’s the PG-13 version:  “Some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about.”

8. I wonder, “Is it better to have the last laugh or to just take the freakin’ high road?”

9. I recently took a break at work and walked downtown to a local bakery where I not only knew 7 out 9 people there, but one of them was the mayor of Ventura himself! Love this town!!

10. I had my co-workers over for a beach day recently.  One of us was brave enough to jump in the cold water.  The rest of us…not so much.    I need to toughen up if I’m going to learn how to surf!

11. Congratulations to my old friend and radio colleague, John Vance, who recently accepted the Fire Chief’s position in Minnetonka, Minnesota.  He’s relocating his family from Granger, Indiana.  Best wishes Chief!!   Of course this means he’s only 1900 miles away as opposed to 2100 miles!

12. From my “Favorite Facebook Posts” file:  “He who is devoid of the power to forgive, is devoid of the power to love. ”   Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929-1968)

Thanks for listening!